Saturday, April 10, 2010

Our brother Jeffrey


Take a look at our brother. Who would have ever thought he would have to go through such a tragic thing in his life. He is such a strong person. Something like an ruptured ansurysm, stroke, finding out he was born without the left vessel in his brain, several procedures, vessel clamping, being put on a ventilator, and so many more things done to him...... yet he never give up the fight. He placed his life in God's hands, and he has began to bring him back to us. He never gave up fighting. When Dr's. kept giving us very little hope to go on, Jeffrey proved them wrong. Jeff has a long road ahead of him, but he won't let this keep him down cause he is a determined man and very strong willed. We will see him be the person he was here in this picture. Such tradegy and yet we as a family still don't know how to come together and stand by each other, support one another, cry with each other, and most of all LOVE each other. I just wonder what it will take for us all to wake up and realize, we only have each other. Petty things seem to become major things in a matter of seconds. We look for someone to blame, a reason why, and most of all... how can I make them feel worse than I do. We push each other out of our lives, so we don't have to say were sorry. We would rather make up with an enemy, than say sorry I made a mistake. Time will only tell if we learn a lesson from what our brother went through, we don't seem to have from losing our MOM. GOD..... help our family to become closer and let things from the past.... go. God Bless Jeffrey. We love him dearly.